A Love Affair…with you

Honesty, love of life, respect, attraction, wit, wisdom, laughter, gratitude, an ability to appreciate the other for all they are, consideration, passion….

"By fully accepting and being you, you become more present and connected to others." Heather Hansen O'Neill

These were just some of the answers I received when I asked my friends and clients “What do you most crave…or find important in a relationship?”

These are simple, beautiful answers and completely understandable.  We want to be around people who make us feel good.  People, who listen, respect and appreciate us…but also who do the same for themselves.  People, who are upbeat and joyful…who radiate goodness.

Why then are so many people dissatisfied?

I believe the fastest way to improve every relationship you have is to cultivate a love affair with yourself.  When you can fully love, appreciate, and find the joy in YOU…then those feelings overflow onto the people with whom you connect.

Feel loving and good about who you are and-

  • You will be more inclined to take the time to listen and really hear what your client wants at work.
  • You will be more patient with your children.
  • You will feel sexier and more passionate with your mate.
  • You will be the type of person that others want to be around.

If you want to find love…give and BE LOVE.

Action Step:  Today, take the time to think of all your wonderful qualities and truly appreciate them.  Be gentle, kind, and grateful with yourself.  For one day, remove the negative self-talk (those awful degrading things we say in our mind that bring us down) and simply love you…for all that you are.  Let me know how you feel and the type of responses you get from the people in your life.  heather@fireinfive.com.

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About FindYourFire

Writer, speaker, and life coach Heather O'Neill is president of Progressive Image and creator of the Fire in Five program...helping people reconnect and find the joy in their lives.
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1 Response to A Love Affair…with you

  1. Well done Heather! I really enjoyed this and it’s true!!

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