Get Turned On!

Yes.  This is one of my more risqué blogs.  If you offend easily feel free to link to this blog

“Live your life from your heart. Share from your heart. And your story will touch and heal people's souls.” Melody Beattie


For the rest of you–Want to get turned on?? 

Seriously.  I want you to think about what happens to you when you’re turned on.  For me, I get warm, sensitive to touch, tingly, energized, and feel like I radiate confidence and love.  Do I like it?  Hell yeah.

When someone you find attractive touches you lightly on the arm, back of the neck, or simply sits so close you feel his or her energy through your clothes…do you like it?

Most feel attractive, powerful, energized, and ready to take action.

Take a moment and think about how that differs from getting fired up to follow your dream, or excited when you are close to achieving a long term goal, or wired to overcome a fear.  Similar, huh?

When I ask people what needs to happen inside of them to get fired up they can’t typically visualize it or verbalize how to answer.  But when I ask someone what happens when they get turned on…THAT they can usually do.

What attributes do you need to turn on to your business…to move forward and successfully connect, market, and/or sell your idea? 

  • Confidence– you have to believe in yourself.  Trust your heart, your creative mind, your body’s ability to carry you.  Let the essence of you shine through.
  • Energy– allow that tingly feeling that starts in your belly to seep throughout your body and fill you with the power to move.  When you are excited about an idea and when you are following your dream you hop of bed, work the wee hours and fill a room with your energy.
  • Connection- open your mind and your heart to the strength of those that support you, to the ideas of new people you meet, and to the opportunities that the universe provides when you connect to each individual you touch.

That exciting, take your breath away, feeling of love and seduction can be yours each and every day when you live your dreams.  Turn the light on inside of you and share your gifts with the world.  

Action Step:  The next time you strongly connect with someone take stock of how your body feels.  Has your breathing, temperature, or posture changed?  Are you feeling confident?  Are you listening and in tune with the other person?  What’s going on with your energy?  Take a moment to decide which came first.  Did you connect because of your confidence or feel confident because of your connection?  I’d love to hear about your experience….

Want to work with me?


About FindYourFire

Writer, speaker, and life coach Heather O'Neill is president of Progressive Image and creator of the Fire in Five program...helping people reconnect and find the joy in their lives.
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